If I asked you to make a list of things you consider to be "grown up" and another with things you consider to be "childlike", my guess is that you would put down certain objects, behaviour, ways of communicating, and interests. It is less likely that you would put down basic needs; everyone needs food, drink, shelter, clothing - these...
Conflict is inevitable. In any relationship there will be times when we disagree, when people don't act how we want them to, and when ultimately we just don't understand where someone is coming from. Why won't they just do what we would do? Why can't they see what I can see?
Wings are the numbers either side of your type on the enneagram diagram. They are one of the ways we get easier 'access' to numbers on the enneagram other than our core type. Whilst our core type never changes, and the core motivations that define that type are the same for everyone who identifies with it, the expression of that...
As a coach, my favourite and least favourite thing about the enneagram is that you cannot tell anyone else what type they are! Because the enneagram focuses on core motivations rather than behaviour, only you can decide which type fits how you see the world. This also makes it very difficult to find out your type through a...
